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Chemistry is defined as the complex emotional or psychological interaction between two people. Some people define it as a “spark” or attraction between them and another person. It can be brought on by a physical or an intense emotional connection with someone you meet. For some people, chemistry cannot be defined. It’s a feeling you get that you can’t describe. You don’t know what it is about that person, but you’re drawn to them. Chemistry is the one thing everyone wants and I talk about it with my clients every day. So here are some good things to know about chemistry that will make your journey to find it a whole lot easier:
Chemistry can take time.It doesn’t always happen within minutes or even an hour of meeting someone. For some people, it takes longer to develop chemistry. Some relationships even develop first as friendship before it can blossom into that feeling of being in love. Remember, taking it slow and developing that connection overtime can make for an amazing, long-lasting relationship.
There is no science to chemistry. There is absolutely no algorithm or scientist in the world that can predict if there will be chemistry between two people. The only way to know if there will be that “spark” is to meet face to face. And again, for others this may take a longer period to develop. This is why going out on that second date is so important! Don’t pass up the opportunity of something great just because you didn’t feel that strong connection right away.
Keep an open mind. We as human beings believe we know exactly what we want. But one thing I have found while working with my clients is that sometimes that doesn’t prove to be true. So many people will tell us what it is they are looking for and then the next thing they know, they found an amazing connection with someone that isn’t anything like the “type” they described.
So, remember, chemistry can happen when you least expect it! Don’t get discouraged, all it takes is that ONE special person and we see it happen every single day!
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